If you judge people you don’t have time to love them. [Mother Teresa] you never understand everyone’s circumstance or situation till you were them, so be kind don’t judge. When you judge people, it doesn’t define them but it defines you. Just be nice and say hi to people in the street or someone you don’t know but it’s not your business to judge the people you even just know them for the first day? Then the question is how you judge people? You know their background, you know the whole story of their life, you know how they fight with their tough life, you know their suffering, you know their pain if the answer is [NO] so don’t judge if you have nothing to say just say nice. Everyone is trying hard to live on this planet, you and me have the battle to fight in our own life, if you have time to judge people why don’t you spend time to love them? NO judge here you should spend time to fix your trouble in life, maintenance your relationship, take care your kids or spouse that what you have to do. No one is perfect but everyone is unique judge when you are perfect. Some people talks bad and criticize to prostitute girls, do you feed them when they have nothing to eat, do you give them shelter when they have no roof over head, do you pay them hospital fee when their family get sick, no one will do it for them right? So here do you think you have right to judge or criticize them? I am here not supporting what they do but sometime be nice and try to understand their situation, okay some people may be happy to do the prostitute it’s easy way to make money and some is forced by many factors around them, they cannot choose or make any decision about their life. I personally think however it’s their business we are out of scene and have no idea about what they have been through in life. I can see people who don’t like to judge is always happy life, always has the positive thinking, smiling face and end up with beautiful day. Why people who judges other they never have a happy life, more negative thought, wearing the suffering face, family arguing, mental health disorder, because they spend too much time to talk or judge other, so they don’t have time to clean their shit, time with their love ones and upgrade themselves. The question is:  do you want to live in happy life? If YES stop criticize or judge people and spend all time to love yourself, your family, and do something that makes you more capability and productivities. Everyone has the battle to fight, everyone has the difference question sheets to answer, you fail if you try to copy other. You cannot reach your destination or accomplish your dream if you are busy to judge people, just leave them behind. If people mad or rude at you just walk away, remember silent is the best way to respond with the fools. Life is too short and precious so don’t waste it on, just be nice and smile less judge and more understanding.  

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This is MJ Fang from Cambodia, i hold MBA, current working as accountant but i am here do not like accounting, i love traveling, like roaming around i never stop my foots in one place. Want to know more about my traveling experiences, life, story please visit my site www.mj-travelblog.com, i am glad if my blogging here will inspire you guys to travel more.