Here are some reasons that you shouldn’t marry. When people stay together it needs the trust, respect, understand, love and care that would make love last long. Do you think marriage has something to do here? Don’t make it wrong, it’s very explicit to show here for you to take the decision-making before walking to wedding ceremony.
#1.You best friends are getting married
Don’t make an excuse and get blind married. Listen to your inner heart ask yourself are you ready, are you steady to settle down?
#2.Sex &Love
You know what your heart it wants right? Love is sex but sex has nothing to do with love. Make sure you are married with the one you love not just for sexual attraction.
#3.Feel lonely
You are not the one. There are many lonely stars in the world. The sun is alone too but………….. it has to marry to the moon? Get married once you meet the soul mate.
#4.Culture pressure
You are not wrong to make your own decision. You are not born to please anyone here, people create laws, not laws create people and culture has nothing to do here to decide about your happiness. If they are telling you to get married because we are living under the cultures, shut them up.
#5.Responsibility
Don’t marry cox of you made someone pregnant or you are getting pregnant. The responsibilities and love is two things. Here I am not telling you to escape from your responsibility but you don’t have to marry either. Clean up the mess you made and take all the responsibilities you have to. If you get married because of this, once the responsibility ends your married life is done.
#6.You love the wedding dresses
I love the wedding dresses too, but it doesn’t mean I have to get married when I don’t have the right one. Don’t take your entire life happiness and put it on a game, once you make the decision make sure you are ready for the outcome.
#7.Stays single too long
Again no one even dies of being single. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, and I know how it feels when people asked when did you get married? You are too old now and bla bla bla………………….. Don’t take their words as personally and get married when your eyes are closing.
#8.Benefit matters
Don’t marry because of you need the financial supporting. Married is not the investment that you have to put your happiness into one bucket of regrets.
#9.You want to change the people you are in relationship with right now
Some people try to change their spouses after married. Remember when you love someone you have to accept the way they are, no matters what. If you cannot accept for the first start then don’t marry him/her.
#10.Want to become a mature person
Its unrelated topic here, marriage and maturity? Marriage doesn’t define your maturity but your reaction respond with appropriate manners does. It’s what most of Cambodian people says after get married you will become more mature. Damn here! Are you sure?
#11.It’s the nature and makes more populations
The numerous of the populations gain or loss is not upon the marriage. Don’t get me wrong, the nature doesn’t tell you to get married.
#12.Blind faith
Some people believe in the true without understanding. I don’t understand why people take what soothsayer saying too serious? If you don’t get married this year you are going to have life risking, you meet the bad luck, you will end up with single……….. Bloody hell man. You are going to die anyway; life is not about lucky all the time and many people in the world who ends up with single. I hope one day i am going to throw the stones to the soothsayer’s roof and let they predict who’s that do this, it should be much more fun.
