We all have a dream to be mommy one day right? I am also one among of those people. The unconditional love mom gives to me, treats me like a princess, there is no love is better than mom’s love. Marriage to me is not important at all, because I know marriage has nothing to do with our happiness. Love is the commitment between two people would love to spend time together, compromise, trust and respect each other that would be the last long of relationship. I don’t know what will marriage brings to me? Joy or tear? In SEA women grow up have to marry and having kids? Who set this rule? Is this culture? Well, I never been in married but what I see from other side of my friends, after married like they are sold out their freedom, dream, and passionate. And what……finally they are divorced, that is not fun at all and ends up with the words [SINGLE MOM. A very few has the success married, the environments and experiences of divorcing from my friends make me shut the door of married. People always think that after married they can own someone’s heart, they are dead wrong; no one is belonging to whom. Married is not meant I own you or your own me don’t expect too much from married. Love and marriage is two things, marriage is just a piece of paper don’t be dead serious with it. In Cambodia [Single mom] is a big deal, people will gossip and bullying to single moms. Social will ignore and anti them, Single mom has lots of pressure from family and social they are living in. I really understand how to take care baby alone? It is not the easy thing as you are cooking food in kitchen. She faces a lots of bullshits, but she is the one who stands out, the one who makes money, the one who persists, the one who cries alone at night so please understand her situations, don’t try to make her feeling left out of the world. Sometime 5+5=10 or 6+4=10 is just you are right but it is not meant they are wrong, always respects people way of thinking. Being single mom is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears. A single mom has a backbone made from steel and a heart of gold. So don’t judge here may be one day you also become a single mom too, you never know right? Please gives her spaces to lives in her way, the lamp are only light up where the room is. I am not here to encourage people have kids before married or divorce, but things in the world is unpredictable we never know. I strongly proud and stand with [Single mom] you are bravo, you are incredible mom I know you have been facing a lots of problems, but here don’t be sad and stand up for those who bullying you. [Single mom] what you have to do is to do all the best to your kids, give them good education, love without expectation, teach them how to being human, no harm but takes no shit. Single moms please don’t be stress out with what people said, they don’t pay your bills or feed you and you don’t have to care. No one wants to divorce and no one even die for divorce too, so if you cannot get along in the same journey then be nice and say good bye to each other, case is solved. Being angry or hate your ex-spouse is just ruin your life; make sure you are living in the present not the past. Finally the messages to moms in the world kids are not the game you have to play with your ex-spouse, they are not born by accident, stop thinking raise kids to take care of you when you are getting old, because they are not your investment capital. Dear single moms raise your kids with wise, educated them, encourage them, support them, teach them how to live in happy life, don’t force them the way they don’t want to. Sometime you too much love push them to dead way and pressure, let them find their own way.
I am here writing this article because one of my good friends, she has inspired me [How is incredible of single mom she is]
