Here is my second article about [Single]; Part 2 will show how beautiful it is when you know how. People were born alone and going to die alone too, no one cannot live without whom. It will be tricky for the first start but when you can live alone you realize that it is the beautiful thing ever. Here is my daily life has gone through with I, ME and Myself. It is tough and dull to walk alone but it is the way to make you strong.
My breakfast/lunch/dinner
No matters what you eat, where you eat……….it matters who you eat with??? Do I matter to eat with myself? It doesn’t bother at all, I am very happy to have meal with me. I never have a dull; I do enjoy and cherish every second with myself, good food at the fancy restaurant why you have to share haha……People always asks me how can you have meal with yourself, I replied so what??? They said: they won’t go out or having meal alone, if there is no friend they won’t get out anyways and instant noodle is the best choice for them. Hey I am not damn here, why I have to eat instant noodle just no one is going out with me? I probably drop them messages that I am going out for dinner where or what time ………… but if no one can make it, I am still fine to go and eat my dinner. Sometimes I would rather spend time alone and having meals, cox I am sick of decision-making for what to eat, damn.
Spend the night time with me
After work I just want to toss my laptop and lay down on my bed. This is peaceful and so relaxing for doing completely nothing. I smile to the whole bed is mine, I would sleep any position I wanted, cook my favorite food, reading my passionate books, watch the channels I like which no one disputing the TV remote with me. I can leave my bathroom door open; dress whatever I want. Sipping the coffee listening to my favorite music and sing it loud.
The weekend with me
I am not the great catch, there is saying do not date the girl who travels she is not [The Lovely Cat] I don’t like to do housework, I do whenever I want it. Single you don’t have to care about this, no one murmurs at your both ears, the house is not clean, this room so messy. I like spending my weekend to do my passionate works, Mon-Friday I have been doing what I have to do, to make money to keep my traveling alive. Being single you have enough time to do the stuff you want, you don’t have to compromise or tolerate with things you don’t like. It has enough time discovering something new, studying more languages if possible.
Gaining confident &mentally healthy
Being single makes you gain more confident, you always asking for help, depending on someone, when no one stands for you, no one helps you, no one be here with you, no one gives you the shoulder to cry on, there always no ones and you realize you have to be independent and build up your confident as much as you can. Mentally is started stable and healthy since you don’t expect on someone, then you never disappointed.
Anywhere with You/Yourself
When it comes on adventure, I would rather travel with myself, I don’t have to think about itinerary plan is not the plan, just pack and go. With people is fun but too complicated to deal with. However I won’t argue with myself haha on where to go, what to eat, things to do.
It’s about to love yourself
Love yourself before you love someone. This such as stupid but the truth, being single has enough time to learn and love yourself. If you don’t even know how to love yourself, how can you love someone? Love doesn’t hurt you, only people who doesn’t know how to love, so don’t be that one. Being single gives you enough space to think what is your next journey is going to be? Totally, single is the word which describes about people who can live alone, not depending on someone. Age is just the word not the sentence; don’t be dead serious with it. Single is the best. Marriage is the choice not an obligation, married when you are ready, not for any reasons to force you selling out [Single]
Enjoy your single way
